Sunday, June 18, 2017

To the dads who make it look easy...you are your children's biggest hero :)

This is for all the dads out there who completely love being fathers. And it shows. The dads who aren't putting on a show. The dads, who when you look at them, you can see it in their face, eyes and smile how much they truly love their kids. 

I never plan to write or do any type of work when I'm away on vacation. But I just had to share this story because it really just touched my heart and made my day.

Recently, my husband and I went to a wedding in Florida and left our kiddies back at home with my parents. When we first got to the pool one morning, there was a little boy sitting on the stairs playing with a beach ball. His brother was on a float not far from him. And their dad was jumping between the two boys, going back and forth.

Having two kids, I know what it's like to be outnumbered. It's not easy. It's actually quite exhausting.

But then I noticed the sweet boy on the stairs was disabled. I noticed his walker nearby and that he didn't speak much, if at all. But what I noticed most, was his giant smile as his dad played with him. His face just lit up. And when he laughed you could just feel the love between them.

The dad would go to his son on the float and then throw the beach ball to his son on the stairs. He went over to the son on the stairs and carried him into the water so he could join his brother. I was trying not to stare but I just so admired this dad. And sometimes the ball would get away from the boy and the dad would jump out of the pool to get it for him. 

The next time the ball got away, I whispered to my husband to hurry and grab the ball. The dad saw him and said no don't worry but my husband had already grabbed it and gave it back to the boy. The dad walked over and shook my husbands hand with a look of pure and genuine gratitude. 

It's moments like these that really pull at my heart strings. I quickly made a joke about leaving our two at home and we began to chat. 

At first, we just small talked. Exchanged names, his boys names and ages and about our two kids at home. What we did for work and what brought us down here. His younger son chimed in and told us that his older brother has a farm named after him.(http://www.uriahsurbanfarms.com/)

I finally got the courage to tell him what I had been thinking the whole time. What a great dad he was. How obvious it was. How you could tell his boys adored him. 

He responded "Oh, shut up!" And just laughed.

We continued to talk through out the day. We later asked about his son's condition. I never know if that question will offend people. The first thing he said was what an unbelievable kid he was. And what an amazing wife he had because of all the things she does for their son. She later joined them at the pool and completed the beautiful family.

So, Dave, you are inspiring!

Happy Father's Day to all the dads who are just doing their duties and not realizing how wonderful they really are :) 








2 comments:

  1. This is so sweet. I went to the farm's page to check it out, and I'm dying that the guy's last name is Smiles. How perfect for this family.

    Happy Father's Day to the Smiles family and to Rich!

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    1. Omg I love that! That is so perfect! Thank you!!!

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